"Jesus loves princesses"

On our drive home from Cincinnati (details to follow), we passed this church that is about a stone's throw from the freeway. It's called the "Solid Rock Church" and to illustrate it, they have a 62-foot tall statue of Christ, rising out of the water, arms stretched to heaven, with a cross across His front. I think it's a little frightening.Charla recognized Him immediately and informed us Jesus was just "over there" and she also said the "temple" was pretty. We quickly pointed out that it was indeed a statue of Jesus, but that the building was not a temple. I felt to add that Jesus loves ALL His children, even if they don't go to our church.

She brightly added, "And Jesus LOVES princesses!"

Gregory's First Day of Kindergarten

Yesterday was a big day in our home. Gregory's first day of school!

It came on pretty quickly, but it turned out to be a wonderful experience. Gregory's birthday is September 15th, 2 weeks before the age cut-off for this district. I had resolved from his infancy to have him start later. I simply didn't want him playing catch-up for 13 years and being the youngest in his class, which I imagine would be a little harder down the road for a boy than a girl.
The district has a highly recommended preschool for a great price, so when I called to enroll him, I was surprised and disappointed when they told me no child who is Kindergarten age is permitted to be in their preschool. We can't afford any of the other ones, yet we felt he was ready to spend more time with other kids and taking on different challenges than he can get at home.

I won't bore you with the internal struggle I fought, but by the end of the day I had called the Kindergarten and everything was set in motion for him to start- exactly 2 weeks later! You might say I was a bit of a basket case. I had been so secure in "knowing" I would have a whole year to prep him for school. He's smart to boot, so it wasn't the academics I was so concerned about. We simply hadn't really discussed it with him.

I was also feeling extremely inadequate. I knew it would be a hard experience, but I hadn't braced myself for it to happen so soon! Suddenly we were buying his Thomas backpack with matching lunch box, a whole new wardrobe, school supplies, getting his physical and shots updated, and really talking it up with him.

The night before was restless for me (I think Gregory slept like a rock, as usual). That morning was bright and exciting. Before we knew it, he was dressed, backpack shouldered, holding his Schultuete, grinning for me as I took his pictures.

On a quick side note, let me explain what a Schultuete is. In Germany, for over 2 centuries, it has been traditional for Kindergarteners to bring a large, decorated cone filled with treats, to share with their new classmates, on the first day of school. My siblings and I all did it, so of course I had to carry on the tradition. I decorated Gregory's with trains and we filled it with wrapped cookies we had baked.

Anyways, Fred came home from work to drive with us to the school. We took pictures and escorted him into his classroom. We were early, so he was the 2nd child there, meaning he got lots of enthusiastic attention from his teacher. She's wonderful! She's been teaching over 25 years and is Nationally certified. She had even called us at home to talk to Gregory to thank him for the flowers he picked for her at the open house last week. He's in good hands.

I was proud of myself, smiling broadly. The only time I shed a tear was just before we left, as I knelt to his level and took him my arms, hugging him tightly, whispering how much I love him and how proud I am of him and that I just knew he was going to have a wonderful time.

Then I took up my girls and followed Fred to the van.

I did pretty good the rest of the day, only every once in a while getting a little glazed over. My pride and excitement for him starting this new phase of life and shifting into it so gracefully was stronger than the feelings of sadness of letting my little boy grow up a little more.

Let me just insert a part of my journal entry from that day:

People have told me since I first held my precious Gregory that “they grow up so fast.” I don’t question that and never have. I guess I’ve just always looked at it more generally. I figured that “before I know it” I’ll be rocking my grandbabies. But after this experience, what I think is even more fleeting is each small stage- not childhood altogether. I hope I can learn from this to make the most of every single stage. Some days may be grueling. I may wish that others would never end. But when all is said and done, I hope I can look back and know I made the most of each chapter of my sweet children’s lives, as long as I’m around to do so.

Learning English

Charla helped me bake cookies for Gregory to take to his first day of Kindergarten. She was VERY enthusiastic about helping. I was a little distracted so it took her asking the same question several times before I realized what she was asking,

"Can I smell the flours?"

She had not differentiated between the FLOUR you bake with the and the FLOWER you pick from a garden. I laughed and told her to go ahead. She made a funny face and said,

Cautious Popping

Today was a first for me. I subbed for the Primary pianist, playing piano at church for the first time! It went smoother than I had expected. I think I'll add it to my list of callings I wouldn't mind getting :)

Aside from pounding out "Once there was a Snowman" 3 times, "Do as I'm Doing" 6 times, and destroying "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes" when we shifted into hyper drive, I got another treat: watching my Gregory in Primary.

He used to struggle. Primary was dreaded, by Gregory and his leaders. I had been so disappointed, realizing my son had been labeled. Then we moved here, and everything changed! He sits attentively, sings, raises his hand, and simply looks happy. It's such a relief! He beamed when he pointed me out to his teacher.

The Primary chorister decided to have a "fun" day, so to help the kids pick the songs, she had put strips of paper with the songs' names in balloons and selected children to come up and pop them. It was very entertaining watching those little kids struggle to sit on the balloons. Out of the entire primary, only 2 managed to pop theirs that way. Most needed the aid of a pin.

Gregory got to be one of the lucky ones chosen. I had noticed how when the other children popped their balloons, he had his fingers stuck in his ears, with a concerned expression on his face. I was surprised he was even willing to pop one! He approached the balloon cautiously. He sat on it, fingers in his ears, face scrunched up, anticipating the pop. That didn't work, so he tried stomping on it, fingers still tight in his ears.

Finally, the chorister produced the pin again. Somehow he managed to hold that pin, fingers still in his ears, and pop the balloon. All the leaders and I had a good laugh. He looked proud (and relieved). And it turned out to be a "pick your favorite", so I got to play "I Love to See the Temple."

Learning English

Gregory was watching this tape we borrowed from the library about trucks. In the part about tow trucks, the host stated that a tow truck's work must always be preformed by "trained professionals." Gregory spun around, wide eyed, and asked, "TRAINED VEGETABLES!?" I had such a good laugh!

We also have fun understanding Charla at times. She'll ask a question that we don't understand. Usually it's when she's looking for something. We'll repeat the question back to her, trying to figure out what she's asking. For example:

Charla: (something sounding similar to) "Where's my dress?"
Me or Fred repeat back: "Where's my dress?"
Charla, exasperated: "I DON'T KNOW!"

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How fun. A friend of mine had this on her blog and I had to try it out. You can click on the graphic and get yours rated, too. I guess considering everything I mention on here is somehow related to my kids, it's a good thing I earned this rating!

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My Princess's New Duds

Craigslist strikes again! We got the whole Disney Store Belle ensemble for $20: gown, crown, gloves, and a scepter. She was elated! Picture-taking was sure fun that day!

My sis-in-law Heather was sweet enough to arrange the pictures in a scrapblog. Thanx!